On Being a Woman and Unlearning the Bullshit

One year ago today, I realized I was smart.

The discovery bubbled to the surface, slowly, after 22 years of being filed away in a sea of manila folders. It was always there, tucked amidst the resumes and pamphlets and memos that read:

You must not dream big, for you must shrink yourself.

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Kasey Altman

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Tech, travel & words. Cancer slayer. Probably frolicking.

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